Get over it when you work somewhere long enough you aren’t going to get along with everyone. It’s all what you make of it. The reward could be more worth than the job ever was.
@jowensblack48 get real, when you have office relationships you risk your job and your career. Women will quickly report you to HR, have you fired, and black listed from furthering your career. Seen it time and time again. NEVER DATE WHERE YOU WORK.
As a divorced man I don’t recommend a relationship with a woman until the court system changes. Never enter into a contract with a woman if she gets rewarded to break it.
I think this is subconciously why I only pursue short term relationships. I'm genuinely terrified what might happen to me if I get married. But I suppose I'm hoping by the time I fall in love the legal system surrounding marriage get's overhauled.
@@Xenomorphasized Your instincts are completely correct about this, Xenomorph. Marriage offers not one thing to a man he cannot get without it except legitimacy for your children. And that is really the only good reason for it to still exist - especially for the wealthy men among us. For an average schmo like me, all it did was guaranty I would owe my ex wife 5 figures when I kicked her to the curb.
@@robertmaybeth3434 As an average schmo myself I considered just having children with the woman I eventually fall in love with without getting married, since in my country illegitimate children are treated identically in the eyes of the law and society thankfully (that's assuming I fall for a woman who would actually be ok with that lol). But then it occurred to me that if illegitimate children are treated identically by the courts then any legal binding between my partner and I would still heavily favour her if children are in the picture. I guess marriage and children just isn't going to work for me, even if a big part of me does want it. P.S. I hope your doing alright though man, I've heard horror stories about people in your situation.
@@Xenomorphasized Thanks for your concern, but I'm fine. Getting that divorce, from an ungrateful wife that spent her time doing the absolute bare minimum, was the best thing I ever did. Wound up costing me several thousand dollars through mediation, I gave her $6000 lump sium then $850 a month for 3 years. Considering we were only married for 4 she got a good deal. But we didn't hate each other, and I didn't want to leave her worse off than when she met me, so I just paid up to give her some small nest egg to improve her life with college or training if she chose. She didn't choose that, of course, and just married another guy before the ink was dry on the divorce papers. But I would have felt guilty if I divorced her with nothing to rebuild her life with - so I let her have that money at least. Naturally she made a bunch of stupid financial choices after I divorced her and probably went through the money I gave her; but that's no concern of mine. It was worth it to be rid of an ingrateful leech. And what makes me the happiest of all is that she is now some other guy's problem and not mine.
...you mean like at a Mormon revival, or something? Single daughters to single mothers aren't nice to anyone unless they think that there is something in it for them. They learn this in divorce court from their single mothers. If she doesn't have a recent picture of her with her father, she is a defect, and you should run before the tears stop flowing when you ask he for one.
Or when she just has it in her personality. I've met women who would tease every guy, not necesarily bc she liked them, but because she was like that 🤷♂
@@samusranzer She has a single mother and does not have recent pictures of her with her father. These 304s learn this sort of gaslighting from their divorcee screech-owl mothers, scum of the earth that they are. It's not like this sort of thing just falls from the sky, but the apple never falls far from the tree. Capiche?
🤔 Hard to pick just one! They tend to intertwine in real time, so *ALL* these excellent points you make are crucial... 😊 Thanks ever so much for all of your smashing advice, Anna! You're amazing!
I always ignored girls when they kept looking. I was annoyed. I thought they were looking because they thought I was weird. I always ignored them. Seriously. I also had dates that wanted to stay in my bed. I let them but I never made advances in case they thought I was a pervert. I missed out. I'm nearly 49 now. Too late. And I have long term illness. When I was young I grew up thinking girls thought sex was dirty and nice girls didn't do it. I didn't want to look filthy so I never tried it on.
here are some things I do around him that I don't do around other men: run my hands through my hair, bite my lip, touch my face and neck, straighten my clothing, play with my necklace, use a softer voice, smile whenever he comes close to me, give him compliments on his ability (he really likes this), and ask him for help and advice, often about things I already know but I just want to be near him or hear his voice. I am quieter when he is around because he calms my chaotic energy. he responds by running his hands through his hair, giving intense and prolonged eye contact, keeping his eye on me when I'm not looking at him, getting closer to me physically, exuding protective vibes, facing his whole body towards me when we're talking (my body is usually turned to the side), mirroring my body language, initiating "accidental" touches like when we are handing objects to each other, and just being very gentle, which he is all the time but more so with me. we are coworkers, and we are trying not to let other people catch on that we like each other.
i had same sittuation and we didnt get together cuz it was hard to communicate with her and i was trying to get us to speak and to get to the point what we gonna do..... and she left the work and we had small fight for a stupid thing last day of the work ignored each other for 12 hours she didnt even want to speak with me she came to me hugged me intensly with additional squuiz and said it was nice knowing you. and she went... and there she went and the rest are just a great memories i have from us. work on it girl.... if you will wait for him too long it might slip away.. :/ dont be like me mad for not pushing slightly more to see where it would lead us..
@@4MyTube4Ever strike while the iron is hot. Life is short... we all have memories of the one that got away. In time though you'll meet someone where it all clicks and comes together. Success is the point where opportunity meets preparedness. If you have one but not the other you will only experience regret for what could have been. Live in the present so that you remain open to the opportunities that become available snd you'll be better prepared when they do arrive.
Your coworkers are not blind and stupid. They already know. In a work environment the male may be reluctant to proceed beyond a certain point due to the possibility of being reported to HR. If he's not married and you're interested and you think he's interested then you should make the first move, not wait on him. Try asking him to lunch instead of pretending you're in a romance novel.
I guarantee you that your co-workers are fully aware! An outside party is far quicker to pick up the signs than the person involved. Trust me, watching others is far easier than figuring out what is happening to you! 😂
It's a bit different if the girl is shy. I used to have an extremely shy girlfriend and she was much too shy to show signals like this. Shy or socially awkward girls tend to AVOID looking at you if they like you. I got a question though. I know a girl who shows these signs to literally EVERY guy who isn't a complete stranger to her. Very confusing. Was at a party with this girl and she was touchy touchy, leaning in close but I noticed she did it with the other guys too.
Anna! Is an ambassador and a prophetess of women psychology.. and we also know that most of the time when she is talking on behalf of other women, she is unconsciously representing her own feminine psychology... I always count how many times she blinks her left eye, averagely 5-6-7 times in a few minutes short video. And more than thirty in this one... delicate talking doll..❤❤
I could go on and on about body language but my favorite overall sign is seeing and otherwise reserved or serious women turn into a little girl around the guy she likes....and when you are that guy and you see that and you get the butterflies? The greatest feeling in the world!
This is quite common in Manilla, where the girls are cute, feminine, giggly, and adorable. In the west, they are aloud, mean, insulting, and embarrassing.
Yeah, I know that one. If they start literally bending over backwards, like making eye contact while you're talking by leaning backwards, that's too much. Nobody wants a doormat.
I went out with my wife last week and we bumped into an old friend and my wife was constantly playing with her hair while talking to him. It drove me mad because she hadn't touched her hair all night except when she was talking to this guy.
She knows you well it seems. Perhaps repay the favour? What's that, a cute waitress you say... allow your eyes to follow her along the isle. This will drive your wife nuts
Yesterday I said fuck it and approached this woman on my way off the bus, I leaned in and said we should talk some time, she just said yeah and smiled looking down. she’s been obviously glancing at me and smiling, I thought her smile was a fake over exaggerated one to be friendly as we work close to each other and always see each other during commute and breaks. I guess my low confidence was trying to sabotage me again but not this time lmao this ones different, something about her, I wouldn’t forgive myself if I never tried anything
This was very helpful! I noticed these in a girl that I met Friday night as I have known her for a while. It has been 4 months since the last time we seen each other. This really clears the air for me ! Thank you Joyanima!
Experienced older men know all these subtle cues. What’s stopping us from responding to those cues is younger women are shallow, superficial, and immature. Some men can handle the immaturity, but we have no time for shallow, superficial women. Be there, done that. Older men love to flirt, just as much as women. Last thing, women cause drama. Older men hate drama.
Just over look all that nonsense! Just take her back to the crib and tap her and be done with it!!! Stop all the excuses and drama of what they do or don't do!!!
Me: high functioning autistic. 32 yrs of social retardation. Then i suddenly caught on to how women communicate. I learned near the rest in several months. 34 yrs old now. All the women at work adore me and none have me.women follow me at the grocery store. I'm 5'7 and probably an 8/10 at best. Confidence brothers.calm and cool. Be one of the gals from time to time and the rest of the time a silent monolith of intelligence/strength and eye flirting them to death. Never individually call out a woman but very occasionally and very noticeably. The rest of the time yell into the open about..whatever. All the women Will listen and it's extremely effective to speak to all of them at once and none of them.make them chase you my brethren
Congratulations, you have made it to the friend zone. A person is rich and rewarded when they have friends. If you're looking for a possible serious relationship maybe try seeking out an autistic female who would be struggling with the same social environment situations as you. Good luck.
As someone who is a little bit autistic, body language can be extremely confusing and difficult to read at times... usually I just think that I'm over analyzing someone's body language since I don't really understand it at times and just move on, especially when it's from someone I really like, never knew these things were anything to look out for
Don't overthink it. Just learn it with patience, and it will start to become easier to pick up on. I've missed alot of connections being doubtful but that's not a bad thing it's a learning experience. I could of turned out a bad storm if I knew this at that time. Second guessing yourself and hesitating can be the biggest obstacles. If you like her and she's talking with you don't wait until Christmas to ask her somewhere, it can literally be anything. Getting told no is only verbal sound if you don't let it get to you. Regret of not knowing will stick with you for a long time my friend. Take the chance for an experience.
@@muscleman369 Thank you for the encouragement and advice, king. About a year ago we reconnected after maybe 5-6 years apart and I've come to realize that I fear losing her (again) more than potentially being rejected. I've worked security at several big events, almost drowned, actually died twice, and never been afraid or even worried, but asking her out is somehow terrifying. But we are both going out doing some very mundane things together on Wednesday, plan on telling her that I really enjoy spending time with her and that I'd really like to keep on doing it. Though knowing me it will be even less elegant due to stress... :) Regardless if I've misread her eagerness to help me out at the office with things I don't really need to help with, her always being there with encouragement or a much needed piece of advice, our chats about absolutely nothing, and general gut feeling I have of her being interested in me as well, regardless if I've misread all of that, at least I'll know and be able to move on and get closure.
It’s never so simple. I was rejected by a girl I later found out, had feelings for me. She was a more logical person and basically deemed that despite the fact she found me attractive couldn’t see a long term relationship with me working out. She would blush when I saw her, play with her hair, and laugh at what I would say. She had this mindset that feelings make a person weaker. It’s a very bizarre dynamic to be caught up in.
she is likely gay and it's just a temp crush, when someone genuinely likes you (think of a favorite video game you wanted or a delicious food) they cant help but play and eat you.
Ha...my friend has been giving me mixed body language, I decided to go all in now or never. I asked her if we can be friends with benefits and she said no 😂
Awesome Anna, I never miss any of your hints discovering one or two but also testing my experience as a way of testing myself! Blessings and lots of love and light to you always!❤❤❤
Womens body language is so subjective specially if the girl is naturally very flirty or very nice, I knew a girl who would jump in my arms when ever she saw me but she never had any interest in a romantic relationship, my friend used to have a GF who used to look at me all the time when she thought no one was looking but had zero interest in me, she ended up cheating on my friend with several people, either she was sizing me up to cheat with (I highly doubt) or I was just that ugly to her like when you drive by an Accident on the road, some people cant help but look loll.
I have a lot of girl-friends therefore i know how most women think and trust me, If you are really THAT ugly, trust me, girls don’t even want to have eye contact with you. If you however get some eye contact here and there, not all the time, but sometimes when you are let’s say in the GYM, that means they think you are interesting or attractive in some kind of way. Even if you are not that handsome they might still try to get your attention if you look good enough to them .
Hi from Cali 👋🏼. Recently came across your channel. Thanks for sharing these interesting, helpful, insightful videos! I try to watch out for subtle signs like these and things the ladies do and like from guys, having been clueless in the past lol. You tell it like it is and keep it engaging/lively. Good stuff. Stay blessed and be well 🙏🏽.
Not particularly mate. I've worked in airlines, most of the ladies said hi to me all the time because they were (mostly) nice. I currently work in operating theatres and I am forever being stopped by the nurses for a conversation because they are (mostly) nice women. The one I'm taking out tonight for a date, her saying "hi" to me all the time was much the same as everyone else. That wasn't a good indicator of her crushing on me. The indicators were much like what this video said. I was spotting her looking at me when I was talking to others, especially other young attractive nurses. When we talked, she'd close the personal space very quickly if we were standing. She never pulled away if I was talking softly in her ear to her about things worth keeping quiet about. I taught her a little hand shake which she'd go out of her way to do with me if I was around. She laughed with me a lot more than any other bloke I observed her with. Although she is a reserved, introverted woman, her body language would open up completely when she speaks to me. And, the kicker, although she had to cancel the date twice (because nurses are a different breed with their shifts and their lives) she actively sought me out to reschedule (to tonight). We talk on the phone for long periods. In conclusion, her saying hi all the time by itself is not an indicator of attraction. That alone says almost nothing other than she's a nice woman.
I like videos like this because I know I simply don't want and need love relationship, I never did. Might be because I'm autistic even though I know there are some autistic people who want relationships. But I never felt the desire for it. I'm thankful I am that way because it means I would never go on a date with someone, means no stress no pressure, no anxiety because of a certain person. I love to be on my own at home, here I am safe and comfortable, and no one can disturb me or doing something bad to me. Also, so far I was never even able to make friends, but I realized years ago it's simply not worth it for me. I think this is where having autism even helps, as I don'T need others around me to keep myself occupied, I never even feel bored or lonely. I should be thankful for that and I am. I think I'm just not made for having friends. Keeping friendships alive might be much too hard for me and would cause too much mental stress and anxiety in me.
I'm a mature male and at work this attractive young lady started just talking to me and straight out flirting, well I ask her for her phone number and she said that it would bring her complications. Well I immediately apologized and said to her that I thought she was single and that was why I ask for her phone but she never answered. Two weeks later at work we accidentally touched hands and I noticed that her eyes dilated well me also and my heart was running lol , but she also came closer to me and it was a magical moment.
This one girl I NOW like, is because of her smile. Even with or without those stupid masks, her eyes light up widen and her smile grows so wide, no joke. Because she works at a fast food, she does not touch her hair at all, but those smiles, make me smile and now she smiles even more. I finally got her to remove her mask, since they are not required, and I saw she was shy and or hiding. She had all of these excuses not to remove it, then after complimenting her smile, it was gone. her excuses was I am tired of getting pimples LOL yeah, sure. Now she is more open and laughing with me. There is more, but I am careful because she is shy
Dont fall for it fellas. The problem is these videos are not giving you the full context. These ladies are trying to set you up for ultimate failure and possible expulsion and or fired.
@@CarlosGarcia-tv4rk the ones that make these type videos never say how they know it means they like you. They just say if she does it thats what it means. But how do they know that, wheres the proof. Also their definition of "like" is much different than mine.
Nah bro, the trick is that a girl has to do three or more of this behaviors at the moment you are interacting with her in order for you to know if she is attracted to you or not. If she is doing one behavior and that’s it… then don’t reach to the conclusion that she is attracted to you… that’s the trick
When you physically touch someone there is a download of information physiologically. There are many articles about how primates reinforce communal behavior. This promotes and reinforces survivability and ensures tribal cohesion. This is true of mammals that are communal.
As an autistic male, i ALWAYS, without exception get it wrong. Either i think she wants to date me when she doesn't, or worse still, i think she isn't interested, only to discover, years later that, "oh yeah, everyone knew she fancied you. We just assumed you were gay when you weren't interested" Me - But.... I didn't... I thought...
Stop thinking of women as fish you're trying to catch for starters. Women are more like sport fisherman with lures and men are the sport fish (You're the catch, brother). If you find that she acts around you in a way she doesn't act around other people, then it's about you. Of course, if you only ever see her one on one, imagine yourself as the best trophy fish in the whole lake and she's trying to win the championship. If she's doing everything she can to bob in your orbit, then that's your cue. Now, to be clear, some women just like a man's attention and those teasers ruin it all for everyone because she's not actually interested and the second you bit the bait, she cuts the line and drives off. So the best you can do is pay attention if she's bobbing around you and, if you are interested, act on it. Otherwise, move on with your life. Not all fish bite all lures, not all lures are intended for you and not all fisherman are acting with sportsmanlike conduct.
Its simple really They always let you know and if your confused? Then they really isn't much point in pursuing? Today i went to a fund raising day and the women doing the face painting was beautiful ❤️ I got my face painted? Good Move . She asked if i was single and i replied yes ? When she finished i left ... 10 minutes later she came over and asked if i would like to meet up next weekend. We swapped numbers .. No confusion there is they ...
Two times with women who are of interest today. Unfortunately both married. The second one was, “Save me!” I have known her for 49 years. Not a passing acquaintance.
One thing I don’t like about channels like these is they don’t give examples of what they are saying. Just saying eye contact means nothing unless you show the kinds of eye contact to look for… as an easy example to give.
Attention, gentleman, a word of notice! I totally understand Anna's good intentions. But, as someone who has been 53 years in the friendzone and suddenly is being hunted by flocks of women, many of which with we want completely different things, even if a lady shows us that she wants us - subtly insinuating it or directly saying it out loud - chances are that not every woman might be for us. Also, please be aware that subtle signs can be easily misread: An open body language might just mean self-confidence. That she is an open book might just be her character. Playing with her hair might just reveal discomfort or nervousness. And touching others is a very common thing with the ladies here in Greece, without insinuating anything sexual. I have been through all this. So, I have found my peace of mind through a simple solution: Food! And no, I will not go into more details, because otherwise it is like a fisherman giving away the secrets of fishing. And then no fish will bite anymore.
Imagine thinking cooking food is attractive to women is the biggest secret ever 😂😂😂 you're 53 mate, you have about 25 years of life left, your secret getting out won't affect the world in the slightest nor will it affect your potential future "mates" mate.
@@Swwatter Well, cooking food does attract the ladies, no doubt. But I was not talking about that. I was talking about sorting out whether a lady is proper for you or not in terms of food. As I stated above, even though boys and girls cannot and are not supposed to be "just friends", not every boy is for every girl and every girl for every boy. I am talking about sorting out whether you are the sharing the same core with a certain lady, whether you are walking on a common path.
@@manos-oliveriversen2112 aah, that's absolutely correct. I apologise for not understanding what you meant on the first pass. Her hobbies and interests in a relationship don't matter. Neither does her favourite food. What does matter if you share the same values, as you've pointed out. Does she share the same world view, idealogical views, the desire to start a family? Then she's potentially the type for you. If not, then she's not. Thank you for clarifying your knowledge. I hope you find (or have found) a partner worthy for you 💪
@@Swwatter You are on a good way, but I am not quite sure you fully understood me. Actually, having the same hobbies and interests do matter. If you are, for instance, all into business and she is all about arts (or vice versa) will not help you understand each other very much. Both of you need someone to share the same spirit, to be able to tell you "that what you did is good, but if you add this and that, you might improve the possibility of getting across the message you want to convey." (And mean it.) You both need someone to help each other evolve. The point is, all too often we do not realise that we have a message for each other. I am talking about the subconscious SIGNS that the one or the other person is right for you. After decades of being approached by flaky ladies, fake profiles on Facebook, people where an alarm went on in my mind as soon as I met them, people that all the signs of the universe showed that they were karmic for me but decided to make their life with someone else, I decided to rearrange my priorities and decide whether a lady is for me or not depending on whether I see her eating the same food as I do. (And I am not talking about eating the same food on a date. I am talking about chance encounters.)
There's this girl at my job that im interested in. See, we work at a restaurant. She works jn front of house, i work in the back (dishroom). She's a busser, so she clears tables and brings the tubs back to the dishroom. It is then that we'll make slight conversation before she heads back out. Every time i come into work and we see each other, she has a huge smile on her face followed by an almost flirty "heyyy". She always maintains eye contact whenever we talk, shes laughed at little jokes i make when they arent really "laughable" i guess lol. Bottom line is, i like her. Shes cute, friendly, good sense of humor, and above all, a hard worker. Now, i wouldnt say im ready for a relationship. Theres a few things in my life that im working on straightening out before i go the dating route. In the meantime, i only just wanna talk to her. Get to know her. Preferably outside of work. The problem? I don't know how or when to approach this. Then again, i could very well be overthinking this entire thing and she's probably just really polite. I have so many questions and so little answers. Last thing i wanna do is throw myself at her and ruin my possible chances. Or worse, make her uncomfortable. Any advice would help tremendously 🙏.
There is a girl who works in a shopping center where I live and she often stares at me. There has been some other things like observing me (it often feels like she's trying to analyze me/figure me out). She reacts if I react to a sms as if she's wondering "What's happening? What did the read on his phone?" Here's the thing that confuses me the most and which I've never experienced before: if you catch someone staring at you, that someone would likely look away right away. Most people do that. However...this same girl has remained eye contact with me for a few seconds when I look back at her (catching her in the act) before finally looking away. What does that mean? Is it because she's self-assured and not prone to being shy? Is she trying to show me some interest by keeping that eye contact? Like I said I cant figure her out. She is obviously aware that I am aware and it feels like there's this weird ping-pong thing between her and me. Maybe it's just her personality and maybe she does the same to other people. However...she acts a bit odd whenever she seems me and something is definitely going on
Well if you just go there a lot and she starts to notice you, maybe she thinks you're stocking her. Same thing happened to me. A girl kept coming into where I work multiple times a week for months, then one day I just mean mugged the fuck out of her and I never saw her again.
That looking thing will only get very attractive guys. They make long eyes contact or stare to the attractive person. If u behave normal. That means u should also get these signs from almost every other woman. If not , more likely she don’t trust or feels u are danger or behave improperly
That touch thing works this girl always seems to touch me when ever she is in arms reach sometimes I don't realize she is there until she makes the touch and she does this a lot this is a girl I normally do not think of as attractive but I for some reason cannot wait to see her or talk to her
Wow this was a perfect video. Thing's that I was not aware of ! I've seen similar videos but this one really gets to the point. Thank you Joyanima! This helps my confusion. I would like to see more like this ?
What if you're really accurate in judging when a woman is interested, but it's entirely intuition? Like you'll be talking to someone you just met and go "she just established me in a sexual context. I'm highly acceptable" but you have no idea how you know? I think there was a point when I was looking at individual cues: mirroring, looking at you until you look back, then holding eye-contact for a quarter of a second before looking away, repeat and keep repeating, the elevator glance (that one I think is an ogle and isn't meant to be communicated), touching their hair, folding their legs towards you, inhaling deeply when they hug you, until it's just this unreadable mass of "yes" "no" and "maybe". I went seven years without a rejection, and deliberately broke my own streak because it was making me nervous. I've even picked up on a girl moving me from "acquaintance" to "object of desire" while my back was completely turned. ?????? The mind can do some amazing things. Oh, you missed the mother of all micro-expressions: pupil dilation. Most of the time you won't see it directly because you won't be close enough -- it's just their eyes get shiny.
It's like observing sharks in the ocean . . . It's better to watch them from the safety of a cage . . . But if they start circling around its best to get out of there.
Body language for me is the big Smile,Eyes and lastly the hair the last lady I spoken to had a "Wig" on. 😂 She was flirting with her hair due to the bad windy weather the "Wig" came off 🌬️ sadly had to give this one a big pass.
Most women are so subtlely into me--if at all--that I totally miss it. Or, rarely, she's awkwardly into me. The most awkward woman into me? The woman I had never seen before who came up to me in the bar, took the drink out of my hand, grabbed both my wrists, and tried dragging me to the dance floor. And there was no dance music playing. She never got the dance from me.
I had another woman several times at the school pub in university blatantly stare at me until one time she found an excuse to talk to me and insist that we dance. I didn't want to dance, and she wouldn't take no for an answer. Well, the dance was short and awkward, and she never talked to me again. You know, ladies, not everyone's into dancing. It was do painful! She kept saying, "Look at me in the eyes!" No thanks.
I dont know about the hair thing ive talked to girls whove played with their hair while talking to me then start telling me how great her new boyfriend is
The girl that works at CVS, mostly every time I am in her presence or we are talking, she always fixes her hair, or, she’ll go to the office and I now see her look better, some makeup and her hair looking better, but I’m so nervous to ask her out, it’s been like 3 months and I haven’t asked her because there are customers around and I don’t want them to complain about her, or think she’s is being inappropriate, but how do I go up and ask? What should I say? We lock eyes all the time and she’ll turn her head and smile…I know she’ll say yes but I’m nervous, and I’m a really handsome guy, but shy! Help?!
This stuff only has merit if you're the ONLY person she does this with. You need to see how she acts around other similar guys to you. If she acts the same with them, it's just her personality.
The girl I’m. Taking to is SO SHY I mean like a timid mouse! I have no idea if she likes me or not, she’s very timid but she’ll come up to talk to me all the time, smiles and talks with me more than anyone else, but she’s not the touchy type or anything. I’m so confused I’ve never messed around with a girl this shy idk what she’s comfortable with 😭
I honestly think I’ve got more chance of winning a fencing competition than I have ever dating a girl of my dreams! 😜 And I haven’t got much chance of winning that either! :( Last year I never won a single fight at that competition! I’m THAT bad! And I’ve been fencing for 13 years! :(
I like your content it is helpful. Here is a suggestion, add some images to your advice so we can see and analyse to understand you. Men are visual creatures whereas many women are audible. You are talking to us in a way women interact, add pictures to your communication methods and you will get thru to a mans psyche. Learn some Midjourney and some ai skills and your offerings will take on a whole new dimension and be received with high praises too.
Is there such thing as plutonic cuddling? For example, you and your friend group of half a dozen sits down to watch a movie and she plops down next to you so close your keys are jabbing you and then she puts a blanket over the two of you and then even puts her legs over yours? Like, is that a sign or is she just really into cuddling? 17 year old me needed the answer two decades ago.
New girl at the office cross paths with me in the hallway. She's never really interacted with me other than setting up her VPN client. She stares down at the floor and looks away as we walk past. Her creeper senses were tingling and she's scared sheetless.
Now I'm sure most of the middle aged and old women in the local grocery store like me. The problem is that I have 3 lives less than them, I am 17 years old.
i really enjoyed this vid it really helps us man/boys but theres some girls that will watch this and will make sure not to fdo any of these thing even if she does like the guy shes talking to so its REALLY hard to know if some people like you
It's seriously sad to hear this because the person who I like. The person is doing all this to someone else it's so sad for me Well I will find my own someday.
Girls Body Language When They Like You 1. They gravitate towards you when you go to the ATM. 2. They giggle when you take out a credit card 3. They jump and clap when they find out that you will pay their bills 4. You let them name your pets; this will let her name your kids. 5. You let them name your kids; this will let her take your kids. 6. You let them put an 'a' on the end of your son's name 7. You babysit your kids while she goes and gets railed out by men who think she is a joke.
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As a guy I don't recommend seeking relationships with a woman where you work. the risk is NOT worth the reward
Well, I can confirm that! After a breakup it's going to be damn hard, especially if you're having a hard time dealing with the situation.
Get over it when you work somewhere long enough you aren’t going to get along with everyone. It’s all what you make of it. The reward could be more worth than the job ever was.
@jowensblack48 get real, when you have office relationships you risk your job and your career. Women will quickly report you to HR, have you fired, and black listed from furthering your career. Seen it time and time again. NEVER DATE WHERE YOU WORK.
I will agree with and I regret it
As a guy I agree...because you doofuses are ruining it for the one guy who the girls actually want.
As a divorced man I don’t recommend a relationship with a woman until the court system changes. Never enter into a contract with a woman if she gets rewarded to break it.
marriage or relationship
I think this is subconciously why I only pursue short term relationships. I'm genuinely terrified what might happen to me if I get married. But I suppose I'm hoping by the time I fall in love the legal system surrounding marriage get's overhauled.
@@Xenomorphasized Your instincts are completely correct about this, Xenomorph. Marriage offers not one thing to a man he cannot get without it except legitimacy for your children. And that is really the only good reason for it to still exist - especially for the wealthy men among us. For an average schmo like me, all it did was guaranty I would owe my ex wife 5 figures when I kicked her to the curb.
@@robertmaybeth3434 As an average schmo myself I considered just having children with the woman I eventually fall in love with without getting married, since in my country illegitimate children are treated identically in the eyes of the law and society thankfully (that's assuming I fall for a woman who would actually be ok with that lol). But then it occurred to me that if illegitimate children are treated identically by the courts then any legal binding between my partner and I would still heavily favour her if children are in the picture.
I guess marriage and children just isn't going to work for me, even if a big part of me does want it.
P.S. I hope your doing alright though man, I've heard horror stories about people in your situation.
@@Xenomorphasized Thanks for your concern, but I'm fine. Getting that divorce, from an ungrateful wife that spent her time doing the absolute bare minimum, was the best thing I ever did. Wound up costing me several thousand dollars through mediation, I gave her $6000 lump sium then $850 a month for 3 years. Considering we were only married for 4 she got a good deal. But we didn't hate each other, and I didn't want to leave her worse off than when she met me, so I just paid up to give her some small nest egg to improve her life with college or training if she chose.
She didn't choose that, of course, and just married another guy before the ink was dry on the divorce papers. But I would have felt guilty if I divorced her with nothing to rebuild her life with - so I let her have that money at least.
Naturally she made a bunch of stupid financial choices after I divorced her and probably went through the money I gave her; but that's no concern of mine. It was worth it to be rid of an ingrateful leech. And what makes me the happiest of all is that she is now some other guy's problem and not mine.
It’s hard when she’s just a really nice person to everyone
...you mean like at a Mormon revival, or something?
Single daughters to single mothers aren't nice to anyone unless they think that there is something in it for them. They learn this in divorce court from their single mothers.
If she doesn't have a recent picture of her with her father, she is a defect, and you should run before the tears stop flowing when you ask he for one.
Or when she just has it in her personality. I've met women who would tease every guy, not necesarily bc she liked them, but because she was like that 🤷♂
@@samusranzer
She has a single mother and does not have recent pictures of her with her father. These 304s learn this sort of gaslighting from their divorcee screech-owl mothers, scum of the earth that they are.
It's not like this sort of thing just falls from the sky, but the apple never falls far from the tree.
Capiche?
@@ViWiHH
How old?
...British?
@@MidnightMark12 🗿
Which body language tip do you find most useful?
🤔 Hard to pick just one! They tend to
intertwine in real time, so *ALL* these
excellent points you make are crucial...
😊 Thanks ever so much for all of your
smashing advice, Anna! You're amazing!
The body language I use is Y.M.C.A. It does NOTHING.
I always ignored girls when they kept looking. I was annoyed. I thought they were looking because they thought I was weird. I always ignored them. Seriously. I also had dates that wanted to stay in my bed. I let them but I never made advances in case they thought I was a pervert. I missed out. I'm nearly 49 now. Too late. And I have long term illness. When I was young I grew up thinking girls thought sex was dirty and nice girls didn't do it. I didn't want to look filthy so I never tried it on.
Eye contact and especially leaning in. You see it all the times with couples in pictures.
Eye contact. Girls are weird about people touching their eyes I found.
*Knowing how to read these cues can boost anyone's confidence in understanding if the vibe is mutual. Awesome breakdown!*
here are some things I do around him that I don't do around other men: run my hands through my hair, bite my lip, touch my face and neck, straighten my clothing, play with my necklace, use a softer voice, smile whenever he comes close to me, give him compliments on his ability (he really likes this), and ask him for help and advice, often about things I already know but I just want to be near him or hear his voice. I am quieter when he is around because he calms my chaotic energy. he responds by running his hands through his hair, giving intense and prolonged eye contact, keeping his eye on me when I'm not looking at him, getting closer to me physically, exuding protective vibes, facing his whole body towards me when we're talking (my body is usually turned to the side), mirroring my body language, initiating "accidental" touches like when we are handing objects to each other, and just being very gentle, which he is all the time but more so with me. we are coworkers, and we are trying not to let other people catch on that we like each other.
i had same sittuation and we didnt get together cuz it was hard to communicate with her and i was trying to get us to speak and to get to the point what we gonna do..... and she left the work and we had small fight for a stupid thing last day of the work ignored each other for 12 hours she didnt even want to speak with me she came to me hugged me intensly with additional squuiz and said it was nice knowing you. and she went...
and there she went and the rest are just a great memories i have from us.
work on it girl.... if you will wait for him too long it might slip away.. :/ dont be like me mad for not pushing slightly more to see where it would lead us..
@@4MyTube4Ever strike while the iron is hot. Life is short... we all have memories of the one that got away.
In time though you'll meet someone where it all clicks and comes together.
Success is the point where opportunity meets preparedness.
If you have one but not the other you will only experience regret for what could have been. Live in the present so that you remain open to the opportunities that become available snd you'll be better prepared when they do arrive.
Your coworkers are not blind and stupid. They already know. In a work environment the male may be reluctant to proceed beyond a certain point due to the possibility of being reported to HR. If he's not married and you're interested and you think he's interested then you should make the first move, not wait on him. Try asking him to lunch instead of pretending you're in a romance novel.
I guarantee you that your co-workers are fully aware! An outside party is far quicker to pick up the signs than the person involved. Trust me, watching others is far easier than figuring out what is happening to you! 😂
It's a bit different if the girl is shy. I used to have an extremely shy girlfriend and she was much too shy to show signals like this.
Shy or socially awkward girls tend to AVOID looking at you if they like you.
I got a question though. I know a girl who shows these signs to literally EVERY guy who isn't a complete stranger to her. Very confusing. Was at a party with this girl and she was touchy touchy, leaning in close but I noticed she did it with the other guys too.
She’s just a flirt/tease.. or she’s super horny and ready to take anyone she can get to bed her.
She’s for the streets
FAM@@sicksteenwolves5318
I know a girl like that too. She sleeps with those guys dude lol.
Yes, she is promiscuous, more than likely, don't trust it, don't do it.
I wasn't sure about her vibes but then she helped clear things up by pulling out her bear spray ...
Women are so subtle and elusive eh
Micro-expressions 🤓
But it was aphrodisiac bear spray 😆 🤣
she just likes the taste😉
😂
Girls need to quit with the body language and just be up front with us by telling us directly. "I like you."
Even if you read all the signs she’ll just ghost you anyway
r I hate doing research on their behavior like if they're some wild animals or some shit 😂😂
They don’t want to risk rejection by saying it. Even if there is a 1% risk lol
They don't know half the time. The guy gotta reinforce it.
Body language is a movement of parts of your body in certain ways but you have no idea that you’re giving away what in your mind through movements
Anna!
Is an ambassador and a prophetess of women psychology.. and we also know that most of the time when she is talking on behalf of other women, she is unconsciously representing her own feminine psychology... I always count how many times she blinks her left eye, averagely 5-6-7 times in a few minutes short video. And more than thirty in this one... delicate talking doll..❤❤
I could go on and on about body language but my favorite overall sign is seeing and otherwise reserved or serious women turn into a little girl around the guy she likes....and when you are that guy and you see that and you get the butterflies? The greatest feeling in the world!
This is quite common in Manilla, where the girls are cute, feminine, giggly, and adorable.
In the west, they are aloud, mean, insulting, and embarrassing.
@JamesRobertson-fh1cs
Yes indeed.
*big, loud, mean, insulting, and embarrassing.
Fetch me a bucket!😂🤮
We men, don't get butterflies.
Yeah, I know that one. If they start literally bending over backwards, like making eye contact while you're talking by leaning backwards, that's too much. Nobody wants a doormat.
I went out with my wife last week and we bumped into an old friend and my wife was constantly playing with her hair while talking to him. It drove me mad because she hadn't touched her hair all night except when she was talking to this guy.
I've been married 27 years. Your wife knows how to push your buttons. LOL
She knows you well it seems. Perhaps repay the favour? What's that, a cute waitress you say... allow your eyes to follow her along the isle. This will drive your wife nuts
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😂😂😂😂
Shave her head
Yesterday I said fuck it and approached this woman on my way off the bus, I leaned in and said we should talk some time, she just said yeah and smiled looking down. she’s been obviously glancing at me and smiling, I thought her smile was a fake over exaggerated one to be friendly as we work close to each other and always see each other during commute and breaks. I guess my low confidence was trying to sabotage me again but not this time lmao this ones different, something about her, I wouldn’t forgive myself if I never tried anything
hod did it go?
Her eyes! A portal to her soul! Awesome vid!
This was very helpful!
I noticed these in a girl that I met Friday night as I have known her for a while. It has been 4 months since the last time we seen each other. This really clears the air for me ! Thank you Joyanima!
Experienced older men know all these subtle cues. What’s stopping us from responding to those cues is younger women are shallow, superficial, and immature. Some men can handle the immaturity, but we have no time for shallow, superficial women. Be there, done that.
Older men love to flirt, just as much as women. Last thing, women cause drama. Older men hate drama.
Just over look all that nonsense! Just take her back to the crib and tap her and be done with it!!! Stop all the excuses and drama of what they do or don't do!!!
Most women want drama for sure or dismiss you as boring.
Dont assume all young women or all older women are the same, its more complicated than that.
Me: high functioning autistic. 32 yrs of social retardation. Then i suddenly caught on to how women communicate. I learned near the rest in several months. 34 yrs old now. All the women at work adore me and none have me.women follow me at the grocery store. I'm 5'7 and probably an 8/10 at best. Confidence brothers.calm and cool. Be one of the gals from time to time and the rest of the time a silent monolith of intelligence/strength and eye flirting them to death. Never individually call out a woman but very occasionally and very noticeably. The rest of the time yell into the open about..whatever. All the women Will listen and it's extremely effective to speak to all of them at once and none of them.make them chase you my brethren
@@josecfdc3240
You must have missed that first line there, 'buddy'.
Congratulations, you have made it to the friend zone. A person is rich and rewarded when they have friends. If you're looking for a possible serious relationship maybe try seeking out an autistic female who would be struggling with the same social environment situations as you. Good luck.
@@rosssmith9870
That's the 'No Divorce Zone'.
Let some simp take the 'starter husband' depreciation hit.
She'll be on Tinder soon enough.
If you got it all figured out, go start a pick up channel
That`s one of the nicest things I`ve ever read
As someone who is a little bit autistic, body language can be extremely confusing and difficult to read at times... usually I just think that I'm over analyzing someone's body language since I don't really understand it at times and just move on, especially when it's from someone I really like, never knew these things were anything to look out for
I can relate to that! I'm autistic as well!
Don't overthink it. Just learn it with patience, and it will start to become easier to pick up on. I've missed alot of connections being doubtful but that's not a bad thing it's a learning experience. I could of turned out a bad storm if I knew this at that time. Second guessing yourself and hesitating can be the biggest obstacles. If you like her and she's talking with you don't wait until Christmas to ask her somewhere, it can literally be anything. Getting told no is only verbal sound if you don't let it get to you. Regret of not knowing will stick with you for a long time my friend. Take the chance for an experience.
@@muscleman369 Thank you for the encouragement and advice, king.
About a year ago we reconnected after maybe 5-6 years apart and I've come to realize that I fear losing her (again) more than potentially being rejected. I've worked security at several big events, almost drowned, actually died twice, and never been afraid or even worried, but asking her out is somehow terrifying. But we are both going out doing some very mundane things together on Wednesday, plan on telling her that I really enjoy spending time with her and that I'd really like to keep on doing it. Though knowing me it will be even less elegant due to stress... :)
Regardless if I've misread her eagerness to help me out at the office with things I don't really need to help with, her always being there with encouragement or a much needed piece of advice, our chats about absolutely nothing, and general gut feeling I have of her being interested in me as well, regardless if I've misread all of that, at least I'll know and be able to move on and get closure.
Damn I have a high functioning 10yr autistic son . I hope the dating game not cruel for him the way things are
@@DeepEnd-sm3uw just prepare him for the worst because unfortunately some don't care if you're autistic.
It’s never so simple. I was rejected by a girl I later found out, had feelings for me. She was a more logical person and basically deemed that despite the fact she found me attractive couldn’t see a long term relationship with me working out. She would blush when I saw her, play with her hair, and laugh at what I would say. She had this mindset that feelings make a person weaker. It’s a very bizarre dynamic to be caught up in.
Typically female logic
She sounds like Cptsd/personality disorder, they cant handle their own minds and weakness and project it onto you
Vulcan? Or Sith? 😂
she is likely gay and it's just a temp crush, when someone genuinely likes you (think of a favorite video game you wanted or a delicious food) they cant help but play and eat you.
Ha...my friend has been giving me mixed body language, I decided to go all in now or never. I asked her if we can be friends with benefits and she said no 😂
Lol
Nah!!!,that was a very bad words to ask her😂😂😂😂😂
Awesome Anna, I never miss any of your hints discovering one or two but also testing my experience as a way of testing myself! Blessings and lots of love and light to you always!❤❤❤
Womens body language is so subjective specially if the girl is naturally very flirty or very nice, I knew a girl who would jump in my arms when ever she saw me but she never had any interest in a romantic relationship, my friend used to have a GF who used to look at me all the time when she thought no one was looking but had zero interest in me, she ended up cheating on my friend with several people, either she was sizing me up to cheat with (I highly doubt) or I was just that ugly to her like when you drive by an Accident on the road, some people cant help but look loll.
Every time I see videos like this, it reinforces the fact that nobody is into me. It is what it is. Lmao
Thank you for this so when I see these signs, I can run away as fast as possible
Maybe girls stare at me because I’m just that spectacularly ugly.
I have a lot of girl-friends therefore i know how most women think and trust me, If you are really THAT ugly, trust me, girls don’t even want to have eye contact with you. If you however get some eye contact here and there, not all the time, but sometimes when you are let’s say in the GYM, that means they think you are interesting or attractive in some kind of way. Even if you are not that handsome they might still try to get your attention if you look good enough to them .
Hi from Cali 👋🏼. Recently came across your channel. Thanks for sharing these interesting, helpful, insightful videos! I try to watch out for subtle signs like these and things the ladies do and like from guys, having been clueless in the past lol. You tell it like it is and keep it engaging/lively. Good stuff. Stay blessed and be well 🙏🏽.
I love the random ps4 in the background 😂
If you at work and she makes sure she gotta say "hi" to you all the time and each time she sees you..
Not particularly mate. I've worked in airlines, most of the ladies said hi to me all the time because they were (mostly) nice. I currently work in operating theatres and I am forever being stopped by the nurses for a conversation because they are (mostly) nice women. The one I'm taking out tonight for a date, her saying "hi" to me all the time was much the same as everyone else. That wasn't a good indicator of her crushing on me.
The indicators were much like what this video said. I was spotting her looking at me when I was talking to others, especially other young attractive nurses. When we talked, she'd close the personal space very quickly if we were standing. She never pulled away if I was talking softly in her ear to her about things worth keeping quiet about. I taught her a little hand shake which she'd go out of her way to do with me if I was around. She laughed with me a lot more than any other bloke I observed her with. Although she is a reserved, introverted woman, her body language would open up completely when she speaks to me. And, the kicker, although she had to cancel the date twice (because nurses are a different breed with their shifts and their lives) she actively sought me out to reschedule (to tonight). We talk on the phone for long periods.
In conclusion, her saying hi all the time by itself is not an indicator of attraction. That alone says almost nothing other than she's a nice woman.
I like videos like this because I know I simply don't want and need love relationship, I never did. Might be because I'm autistic even though I know there are some autistic people who want relationships. But I never felt the desire for it.
I'm thankful I am that way because it means I would never go on a date with someone, means no stress no pressure, no anxiety because of a certain person. I love to be on my own at home, here I am safe and comfortable, and no one can disturb me or doing something bad to me. Also, so far I was never even able to make friends, but I realized years ago it's simply not worth it for me.
I think this is where having autism even helps, as I don'T need others around me to keep myself occupied, I never even feel bored or lonely. I should be thankful for that and I am. I think I'm just not made for having friends. Keeping friendships alive might be much too hard for me and would cause too much mental stress and anxiety in me.
Now this is gold, especially for us 'dense' guys. Had to watch twice. Cheers all.
Glad to hear you found it helpful! Good luck!
I'm a mature male and at work this attractive young lady started just talking to me and straight out flirting, well I ask her for her phone number and she said that it would bring her complications. Well I immediately apologized and said to her that I thought she was single and that was why I ask for her phone but she never answered. Two weeks later at work we accidentally touched hands and I noticed that her eyes dilated well me also and my heart was running lol , but she also came closer to me and it was a magical moment.
This one girl I NOW like, is because of her smile. Even with or without those stupid masks, her eyes light up widen and her smile grows so wide, no joke. Because she works at a fast food, she does not touch her hair at all, but those smiles, make me smile and now she smiles even more. I finally got her to remove her mask, since they are not required, and I saw she was shy and or hiding. She had all of these excuses not to remove it, then after complimenting her smile, it was gone. her excuses was I am tired of getting pimples LOL yeah, sure. Now she is more open and laughing with me. There is more, but I am careful because she is shy
If only girls would do the same for us guys but nope you need be attractive to get there attention.
Dont fall for it fellas. The problem is these videos are not giving you the full context. These ladies are trying to set you up for ultimate failure and possible expulsion and or fired.
Yup they play games
@@CarlosGarcia-tv4rk the ones that make these type videos never say how they know it means they like you. They just say if she does it thats what it means. But how do they know that, wheres the proof. Also their definition of "like" is much different than mine.
@@abouthisbiz4330 true "like" is different than being interested
Nah bro, the trick is that a girl has to do three or more of this behaviors at the moment you are interacting with her in order for you to know if she is attracted to you or not. If she is doing one behavior and that’s it… then don’t reach to the conclusion that she is attracted to you… that’s the trick
A gesture I frequently find with eye contact is a bright smile with their hand out when they walk up to my car!!.....$$$
When you physically touch someone there is a download of information physiologically. There are many articles about how primates reinforce communal behavior. This promotes and reinforces survivability and ensures tribal cohesion. This is true of mammals that are communal.
I think if you work together and you both love it, like a Garden nursery, or interior decorating, go for it.
Thank you Anna😊I feel like I'm learning more and more each vid🎉🎉😊A Ray of sunshine on a cloudy day. ❤❤
Love to hear when people are learning lots of great things from the videos!
As an autistic male, i ALWAYS, without exception get it wrong.
Either i think she wants to date me when she doesn't, or worse still, i think she isn't interested, only to discover, years later that, "oh yeah, everyone knew she fancied you. We just assumed you were gay when you weren't interested"
Me - But.... I didn't... I thought...
Stop thinking of women as fish you're trying to catch for starters. Women are more like sport fisherman with lures and men are the sport fish (You're the catch, brother).
If you find that she acts around you in a way she doesn't act around other people, then it's about you. Of course, if you only ever see her one on one, imagine yourself as the best trophy fish in the whole lake and she's trying to win the championship. If she's doing everything she can to bob in your orbit, then that's your cue.
Now, to be clear, some women just like a man's attention and those teasers ruin it all for everyone because she's not actually interested and the second you bit the bait, she cuts the line and drives off.
So the best you can do is pay attention if she's bobbing around you and, if you are interested, act on it. Otherwise, move on with your life. Not all fish bite all lures, not all lures are intended for you and not all fisherman are acting with sportsmanlike conduct.
Its simple really
They always let you know and if your confused? Then they really isn't much point in pursuing?
Today i went to a fund raising day and the women doing the face painting was beautiful ❤️
I got my face painted?
Good Move .
She asked if i was single and i replied yes ?
When she finished i left ...
10 minutes later she came over and asked if i would like to meet up next weekend.
We swapped numbers ..
No confusion there is they ...
What if she acts like she likes you but don't look at you and runs away. Yet still comes into where you work to see you. lol
Two times with women who are of interest today. Unfortunately both married. The second one was, “Save me!” I have known her for 49 years. Not a passing acquaintance.
Nice video excellent tips loved those two plants🌿
The plants appreciate the compliments!
This Girl is so beautiful can’t even Guess her age 🥰😍
One thing I don’t like about channels like these is they don’t give examples of what they are saying. Just saying eye contact means nothing unless you show the kinds of eye contact to look for… as an easy example to give.
It always turns out they were just being friendly
I love your accent. ❤
Just proves women aren't interested in me. I've learned to accept it
Attention, gentleman, a word of notice! I totally understand Anna's good intentions. But, as someone who has been 53 years in the friendzone and suddenly is being hunted by flocks of women, many of which with we want completely different things, even if a lady shows us that she wants us - subtly insinuating it or directly saying it out loud - chances are that not every woman might be for us. Also, please be aware that subtle signs can be easily misread: An open body language might just mean self-confidence. That she is an open book might just be her character. Playing with her hair might just reveal discomfort or nervousness. And touching others is a very common thing with the ladies here in Greece, without insinuating anything sexual. I have been through all this. So, I have found my peace of mind through a simple solution: Food! And no, I will not go into more details, because otherwise it is like a fisherman giving away the secrets of fishing. And then no fish will bite anymore.
Imagine thinking cooking food is attractive to women is the biggest secret ever 😂😂😂 you're 53 mate, you have about 25 years of life left, your secret getting out won't affect the world in the slightest nor will it affect your potential future "mates" mate.
@@Swwatter Well, cooking food does attract the ladies, no doubt. But I was not talking about that. I was talking about sorting out whether a lady is proper for you or not in terms of food. As I stated above, even though boys and girls cannot and are not supposed to be "just friends", not every boy is for every girl and every girl for every boy. I am talking about sorting out whether you are the sharing the same core with a certain lady, whether you are walking on a common path.
@@manos-oliveriversen2112 aah, that's absolutely correct. I apologise for not understanding what you meant on the first pass.
Her hobbies and interests in a relationship don't matter. Neither does her favourite food. What does matter if you share the same values, as you've pointed out. Does she share the same world view, idealogical views, the desire to start a family? Then she's potentially the type for you. If not, then she's not.
Thank you for clarifying your knowledge. I hope you find (or have found) a partner worthy for you 💪
@@Swwatter You are on a good way, but I am not quite sure you fully understood me. Actually, having the same hobbies and interests do matter. If you are, for instance, all into business and she is all about arts (or vice versa) will not help you understand each other very much. Both of you need someone to share the same spirit, to be able to tell you "that what you did is good, but if you add this and that, you might improve the possibility of getting across the message you want to convey." (And mean it.) You both need someone to help each other evolve. The point is, all too often we do not realise that we have a message for each other. I am talking about the subconscious SIGNS that the one or the other person is right for you. After decades of being approached by flaky ladies, fake profiles on Facebook, people where an alarm went on in my mind as soon as I met them, people that all the signs of the universe showed that they were karmic for me but decided to make their life with someone else, I decided to rearrange my priorities and decide whether a lady is for me or not depending on whether I see her eating the same food as I do. (And I am not talking about eating the same food on a date. I am talking about chance encounters.)
I don't think Chicken Shawarma with extra Tahini will help her rid herself of the dreadful definitely getting raped feeling.
There's this girl at my job that im interested in. See, we work at a restaurant. She works jn front of house, i work in the back (dishroom). She's a busser, so she clears tables and brings the tubs back to the dishroom. It is then that we'll make slight conversation before she heads back out. Every time i come into work and we see each other, she has a huge smile on her face followed by an almost flirty "heyyy". She always maintains eye contact whenever we talk, shes laughed at little jokes i make when they arent really "laughable" i guess lol.
Bottom line is, i like her. Shes cute, friendly, good sense of humor, and above all, a hard worker.
Now, i wouldnt say im ready for a relationship. Theres a few things in my life that im working on straightening out before i go the dating route.
In the meantime, i only just wanna talk to her. Get to know her. Preferably outside of work.
The problem? I don't know how or when to approach this. Then again, i could very well be overthinking this entire thing and she's probably just really polite. I have so many questions and so little answers.
Last thing i wanna do is throw myself at her and ruin my possible chances. Or worse, make her uncomfortable.
Any advice would help tremendously 🙏.
Did you ever move forward?
There is a girl who works in a shopping center where I live and she often stares at me. There has been some other things like observing me (it often feels like she's trying to analyze me/figure me out). She reacts if I react to a sms as if she's wondering "What's happening? What did the read on his phone?" Here's the thing that confuses me the most and which I've never experienced before: if you catch someone staring at you, that someone would likely look away right away. Most people do that. However...this same girl has remained eye contact with me for a few seconds when I look back at her (catching her in the act) before finally looking away. What does that mean? Is it because she's self-assured and not prone to being shy? Is she trying to show me some interest by keeping that eye contact? Like I said I cant figure her out. She is obviously aware that I am aware and it feels like there's this weird ping-pong thing between her and me. Maybe it's just her personality and maybe she does the same to other people. However...she acts a bit odd whenever she seems me and something is definitely going on
Well if you just go there a lot and she starts to notice you, maybe she thinks you're stocking her. Same thing happened to me. A girl kept coming into where I work multiple times a week for months, then one day I just mean mugged the fuck out of her and I never saw her again.
@@grantwerner7332that doesn't sound quite right
That looking thing will only get very attractive guys. They make long eyes contact or stare to the attractive person. If u behave normal. That means u should also get these signs from almost every other woman. If not , more likely she don’t trust or feels u are danger or behave improperly
Enlightened empowerment never sounded or looked so beautifully articulate….
Female magic get in our heads like black magic lol 😀
That touch thing works this girl always seems to touch me when ever she is in arms reach sometimes I don't realize she is there until she makes the touch and she does this a lot this is a girl I normally do not think of as attractive but I for some reason cannot wait to see her or talk to her
Never, NEVER take up with someone you work with. It never ends well.
This is also called the friend zone…. Make the mistake of thinking it’s more is exactly how you can make someone uncomfortable and cause a big problem
Wow this was a perfect video. Thing's that I was not aware of ! I've seen similar videos but this one really gets to the point. Thank you Joyanima! This helps my confusion. I would like to see more like this ?
So glad to hear that! There's some deeper dives on body language coming soon!
Her body language was pretty clear she ran as fast as she could down the street away from me
Some are avoiding because they are afraid you might realize
I watched this video so I could dodge those life ruining opportunities.
She never signals to me, we avoid each other, but we are locked externally and internally at every opportunity.
I don't fear rejection nor ghosting, rejection is Protection 🧿
I'm marrying Siri , we have a grate relationship , no back answering and no tantrums
What if you're really accurate in judging when a woman is interested, but it's entirely intuition? Like you'll be talking to someone you just met and go "she just established me in a sexual context. I'm highly acceptable" but you have no idea how you know? I think there was a point when I was looking at individual cues: mirroring, looking at you until you look back, then holding eye-contact for a quarter of a second before looking away, repeat and keep repeating, the elevator glance (that one I think is an ogle and isn't meant to be communicated), touching their hair, folding their legs towards you, inhaling deeply when they hug you, until it's just this unreadable mass of "yes" "no" and "maybe".
I went seven years without a rejection, and deliberately broke my own streak because it was making me nervous. I've even picked up on a girl moving me from "acquaintance" to "object of desire" while my back was completely turned. ??????
The mind can do some amazing things.
Oh, you missed the mother of all micro-expressions: pupil dilation. Most of the time you won't see it directly because you won't be close enough -- it's just their eyes get shiny.
I had to pause simply to acknowledge the words "precipice of uncertainty". I'm putting that one in the verbal artillery vault.
Appreciate you!
Having Actual actors displaying your words , would have been more interesting .
It's like observing sharks in the ocean . . . It's better to watch them from the safety of a cage . . . But if they start circling around its best to get out of there.
Now I know what to do to keep people away from me!!🤣😂
Body language for me is the big Smile,Eyes and lastly the hair the last lady I spoken to had a "Wig" on. 😂 She was flirting with her hair due to the bad windy weather the "Wig" came off 🌬️ sadly had to give this one a big pass.
😂 dang if she was hot with the wig on maybe u could get her to use a bunch of different wigs to spice things up
She might have looked good bald.
@@te9591 Haha im bold also.😂
@@birdpee8699 yeah, so quit discriminating and bust those cheeks.
😂😂😂😂😂
I’m a woman and I like a guy. But I only have #1 sign when I’m around him and the rest of signs I don’t have.
Great video!
I love the careful setup.
Thank you!
Most women are so subtlely into me--if at all--that I totally miss it. Or, rarely, she's awkwardly into me. The most awkward woman into me? The woman I had never seen before who came up to me in the bar, took the drink out of my hand, grabbed both my wrists, and tried dragging me to the dance floor. And there was no dance music playing. She never got the dance from me.
I had another woman several times at the school pub in university blatantly stare at me until one time she found an excuse to talk to me and insist that we dance. I didn't want to dance, and she wouldn't take no for an answer. Well, the dance was short and awkward, and she never talked to me again. You know, ladies, not everyone's into dancing. It was do painful! She kept saying, "Look at me in the eyes!" No thanks.
@@youbetcha6880 man that would be so uncomfortable if you were on the spectrum
@@youbetcha6880 sounds like you're a really fun guy 😂
@@youbetcha6880what’s wrong with looking into eyes though 🦸♂️
@@youbetcha6880 u could just i am not in the mood for a dance but only in the mood for a kiss .. u drag her..
I dont know about the hair thing ive talked to girls whove played with their hair while talking to me then start telling me how great her new boyfriend is
Im a body mechanic..😂😂😂
Women also flirt by swaying their hips & butts,giving dirty looks & dropping stuff in front of someone she likes.
The girl that works at CVS, mostly every time I am in her presence or we are talking, she always fixes her hair, or, she’ll go to the office and I now see her look better, some makeup and her hair looking better, but I’m so nervous to ask her out, it’s been like 3 months and I haven’t asked her because there are customers around and I don’t want them to complain about her, or think she’s is being inappropriate, but how do I go up and ask? What should I say? We lock eyes all the time and she’ll turn her head and smile…I know she’ll say yes but I’m nervous, and I’m a really handsome guy, but shy! Help?!
You should
a)be a customer & exchange contact particulars with her,
b)slip her your thoughts on a message on paper or
c)hook her up out of work.
This stuff only has merit if you're the ONLY person she does this with. You need to see how she acts around other similar guys to you. If she acts the same with them, it's just her personality.
The girl I’m. Taking to is SO SHY I mean like a timid mouse! I have no idea if she likes me or not, she’s very timid but she’ll come up to talk to me all the time, smiles and talks with me more than anyone else, but she’s not the touchy type or anything. I’m so confused I’ve never messed around with a girl this shy idk what she’s comfortable with 😭
Before she come to u to talk or u spot her at distance looking at u , she will have romantic interest
Leaning in I know women that do that when they just want to hear things in the room because it is loud.
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I honestly think I’ve got more chance of winning a fencing competition than I have ever dating a girl of my dreams! 😜 And I haven’t got much chance of winning that either! :( Last year I never won a single fight at that competition! I’m THAT bad! And I’ve been fencing for 13 years! :(
If someone is flirting with someone I can tell but if there flirting with me I cant
I like your content it is helpful.
Here is a suggestion, add some images to your advice so we can see and analyse to understand you. Men are visual creatures whereas many women are audible.
You are talking to us in a way women interact, add pictures to your communication methods and you will get thru to a mans psyche.
Learn some Midjourney and some ai skills and your offerings will take on a whole new dimension and be received with high praises too.
Is there such thing as plutonic cuddling? For example, you and your friend group of half a dozen sits down to watch a movie and she plops down next to you so close your keys are jabbing you and then she puts a blanket over the two of you and then even puts her legs over yours? Like, is that a sign or is she just really into cuddling?
17 year old me needed the answer two decades ago.
She comfortable with you, could be good or bad.
@@bellmane45 Yep, either she is super into you or sees you as a puppy. It's been 17 years, so not relevant to me, but always hilarious to think about.
New girl at the office cross paths with me in the hallway. She's never really interacted with me other than setting up her VPN client. She stares down at the floor and looks away as we walk past. Her creeper senses were tingling and she's scared sheetless.
Now I'm sure most of the middle aged and old women in the local grocery store like me. The problem is that I have 3 lives less than them, I am 17 years old.
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Thank You 😊
i really enjoyed this vid it really helps us man/boys but theres some girls that will watch this and will make sure not to fdo any of these thing even if she does like the guy shes talking to so its REALLY hard to know if some people like you
I know this woman from my last job. I gave her friendly hug around her shoulders and neck. I initiated the hug first was that a bad idea.
It's seriously sad to hear this because the person who I like. The person is doing all this to someone else it's so sad for me
Well I will find my own someday.
You will❤
as a man we should seperate between a relationship and work 😊
As a guy going through divorce do not get remarried
ahh the gool 'ol "reading the cues" the enigma that has been with us since time began, nothing that a goofy youtube video will solve
Thanks for the help, I am into my classmate and I have seen signs you have mentioned in her. I think she likes me but she's kind of shy to admit it.
All these body languages I spotted but never shotted my shot 😂😂😂
So when u see her circling in, getting closer to you, trying to touch you..... Run brother, just run
Sometime it's in th air, try not to wake up married or marring th same one twice. Cheers !💥💥💥
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I need you as a wing girl Anna!
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This is very helpful, as I'm not very good at this kind of stuff 😅 I subscribed btw.
Girls Body Language When They Like You
1. They gravitate towards you when you go to the ATM.
2. They giggle when you take out a credit card
3. They jump and clap when they find out that you will pay their bills
4. You let them name your pets; this will let her name your kids.
5. You let them name your kids; this will let her take your kids.
6. You let them put an 'a' on the end of your son's name
7. You babysit your kids while she goes and gets railed out by men who think she is a joke.
You don't "babysit" your own kids... that's called being a decent parent...FFS
tf
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Yes, totally fucked.
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